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A Balanced Perspective By Teens on their Use Of Technology & Why Their Voice Matters
Teens view tech with balance. To support them, we must listen, collaborate on rules, and empower them, not control them, with digital literacy and trust.

The White Hatter
Jan 174 min read


Evidence Based Resources That Support A Balanced "Restricted" Approach, Rather Than A "Banning" Approach, To The Use of Cellphones & Laptops In Schools
Evidence shows school phone bans don't improve well-being. Balanced policies, not outright bans, better support student safety, learning, and mental health.

The White Hatter
Jan 164 min read


Rethinking The Term “Toxic Masculinity”: How Language Shapes Conversations with Teen Boys
hifting from "toxic masculinity" to “healthy gender expectations” helps teen boys engage in positive growth without feeling attacked or alienated.

The White Hatter
Jan 115 min read


The Polarization Of Youth Technology Use: Who Really Benefits?
Tech debates are often polarized for profit or politics—parents need balanced, informed approaches that prioritize their kids' real needs, not extremes.

The White Hatter
Jan 75 min read


Parenting in the Onlife World - Finding A Balance and Challenging The Myths Between Fear and Opportunity!
Tech isn't all good or bad. Balance, guidance, and gradual exposure—not fear or extremes—help kids build safe, healthy digital habits.

The White Hatter
Jan 66 min read


Questioning the Narrative About Technology's Impact on Growing Brains, Even When It Comes from a Ph.D. Presenter – A Recent Case Study
Beware fear-based claims on tech and youth brains—use evidence, not emotion, to guide parenting decisions in the onlife world.

The White Hatter
Jan 55 min read


The Importance of Listening - What Policing Taught Me About Understanding & Communicating with Youth About Their Use Of Technology
Before reacting to tech use, parents should listen first—kids want to feel heard, not fixed. Listening builds trust, connection, and stronger guidance.

The White Hatter
Jan 43 min read


Youth, Teens, Technology & Social Media - Emotional Appeals vs Evidence Based Research
Banning tech out of fear risks harm. Evidence, not emotion, should guide how we empower youth to navigate today’s digital world safely and responsibly.

The White Hatter
Jan 19 min read


Online Teen Friendships - Trust But Verify, An Important Message For Parents and Caregivers
Online friendships can be safe and meaningful—if verified. Open dialogue, due diligence, and trust-building help teens form healthy, secure connections.

The White Hatter
Dec 30, 20243 min read


Parenting in the Onlife World: Why You Should Question Un-cited Studies In Parenting Articles & The Media
If an article cites a study without linking or naming it, be skeptical—parents must verify claims to avoid fear-based decisions and model digital literacy.

The White Hatter
Dec 29, 20244 min read


"Unlocked" by Dr Pete Etchells - Book Review: The Real Science of Screen Time (and how to spend it Better)
“Unlocked” debunks fear-based screen myths with research-backed insight, promoting healthy, reflective tech use for families in today’s digital world.

The White Hatter
Apr 2, 20245 min read


The Anxious Generation – Book Review: "How The Great Rewiring Of Childhood Is Causing an Epidemic Of Mental Health”
Haidt's book simplifies youth mental health to phones/social media, but evidence shows it's a complex issue needing nuanced, research-based solutions.

The White Hatter
Mar 29, 202414 min read


Pink Shirt Day - A Different Perspective
Pink Shirt Day raises awareness, but teens say it lacks real impact. Addressing bullying needs year-round action, not just symbolic performance activism.

The White Hatter
Feb 6, 20234 min read


Vaping & Nicotine Pouches
Teen vaping remains high in Canada, with 29% having tried it and 12% of older teens vaping daily—despite bans, black market access persists.

The White Hatter
Aug 30, 202212 min read


Sextortion
Online sextortion, often targeting teen boys, uses tactics like threats, grooming, deepfakes, and AI to extort nudes or money—urgent awareness is vital.

The White Hatter
Aug 30, 202217 min read


Intimate Images, Nudes, Sexting, Deepfakes, and Sugaring
Teens are navigating sexting, nudes, and online image sharing in complex ways—law, consent, tech abuse, and exploitation demand education, not fear.

The White Hatter
Aug 30, 202255 min read


Cyberbullying & Online Aggression
Despite concerns, bullying—especially cyberbullying—has remained stable or declined post-COVID; clear definitions, education, and early support are key.

The White Hatter
Aug 30, 202230 min read


Online Gaming
Gaming isn’t inherently harmful—balanced use shows social, cognitive, and emotional benefits; problematic gaming is rare and rooted in deeper issues.

The White Hatter
Aug 30, 202231 min read


Dopamine - Facts vs. Fear
Dopamine isn’t digital heroin—online behavior is complex, and problematic use isn’t the same as addiction; evidence calls for balance, not fear.

The White Hatter
Aug 30, 202214 min read


Creating an Online Balance With Your Kids
Focus on screen activity, not screen time; use the “Power of Three” (creative, social, physical) to build balanced, healthy digital habits in youth.

The White Hatter
Aug 30, 20225 min read
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